“Those who matter don’t mind. And those who mind don’t matter.”-Dr Seuss
Sometimes the hardest terms to accept is that it’s ok to say no. It’s ok to set boundaries . From the food that you eat to the activities you engage in.
Who said you have to be in a situation for the sake of sparring another’s feelings? Why? What about your hard work? What about your drive? Will you let another dim your light?
What do you want out of life and what are you willing to give? What are you willing to hold on to and what are you willing to let go of? Are you willing to set boundaries and stand up for yourself?
This doesn’t make you a bad person. It simply means you respect yourself enough to go for what you want.
It takes a level of honesty to dismiss and let go. It takes courage to enter the unknown. It takes consistency to arrive and stay.
It will take all of you to get where you need to be.
Hesitate if you must. But carry on.
Maybe ego has something to do with it, yes! Because you owe it to yourself to provide the life you have always dreamed of. No more hiding pretending you can’t save yourself.
Nothing too serious y’all 🤪🥰
JiuJitsu has helped a bunch with this!
Constantly enduring situations that could be avoided. JiuJitsu has helped set, adjust and create boundaries. Wait what? You’re trying to do what to me? Nah!
We can talk about motivation and discipline. Which these are vital ingredients to any journey. The new one I found is boundaries. Boundaries are scary! Motivation is exotic and discipline not very attractive. Still, the show must go on 🙏🏼 xoxo Your favorite Cactus ✨
